Friday, November 27, 2009

So Grateful

Holidays tend to be stressful to me. Even though I know that the point of holidays is to enjoy family and the time together, I often get stressed out by all the less important stuff-- meals, gifts, being timely to events-- as well as the every-day type stresses.

Thanksgiving was no different for me. We were planning on leaving home about noon to drive to Colorado Springs to spend Thanksgiving with family. That morning, I was feeling my stress level rising. I was concerned that we wouldn't be ready in time. As I realized this was happening, I took some time out, prayed, and decided that I wouldn't let myself get stressed out. It didn't matter if we were a little late.

We managed to get out of the house just a few minutes after 12, so we were right on time. In Castle Rock, we hit some stop-and-go construction. There were construction signs, but no construction. As we were going through this, we were rear-ended. As we sat on the side of the road, I realized there were many things I am thankful for this Thanksgiving. I am grateful that no one involved in the accident was injured, especially the children.

I am grateful that the guy who hit us has insurance.

I am grateful the children were so calm about an extra hour added to a two-hour trip (and that they went to sleep!).

I am grateful Jack is able to take care of the situation and remain calm about it all.

I am grateful that the pies in the back of the van were undamaged. Here Joseph was so tired after making pies yesterday, he went right to sleep!
(Rebecca, Becca, Maren, TJ, Robert)
I am grateful we were able to see my brother Robert and his family that drove out from Utah for the holiday.
I am grateful the cousins all played so well together.

(Miriam, Maren, TJ, Samantha, Rebecca, Joseph)

I am grateful that we were able to spend time with my brother Aaron and his family as well.

(Ali, Ann, Jacob, Trish, Miriam, Samantha)
I am grateful we were able to be there for my niece Ali's 16th birthday. I'm not surprised all the girls liked the New Moon game she got.
I am grateful I was able to visit with my Grandma and that she has found a treatment that is helping with her dizziness.
(Joseph and Jack)
I am especially grateful for my husband and children. They mean the world to me.

4 comments:

Mistaken said...

That's too bad about being rear ended. It sounds like you had so much to be grateful for and good for you recognizing that. Not everyone would. Hope you had a great holiday and are calm for the next one. :)

Shelly said...

I'm so thankful no one was hurt in the accident & that you were still able to enjoy your Thanksgiving with family. I saw Jack in a red van yesterday, but just figured you got a new van. So glad you're all o.k.!!

Unknown said...

Glad to hear everyone (and the pies) were okay. Car crashes can be REALLY scary things. You've kept some great perspective.
--Julean

Ali said...

It was great seeing you all! THanks so much for the game, it was the perfect gift! I can't think of a much better way to celebrate Sweet 16 than with s=my amazing family! I love you guys!